Onward Christian Soldiers
By Edwin L. Young,
PhD
September
17, 2009
Christians
believe love conquers all. That is why
Christians have conquered so many countries.
When
a typical American man says to a woman ‘I love you’, he implicitly means ‘I
want you to be my exclusive property.’
If
you are sure you are not that way, then you are not a typical American
man.
Of
course, there is complementary corollary to that position. Women still expect to be taken care of,
provided for, protected, and properly adorned and displayed.
If
you are sure you are not that way, then you are not the typical American
woman.
A
cautionary proposition: If a male suitor
brings roses to woo a woman to marry him, she can well expect to end up in a
bed of thorns.
These
conquest and possession propositions make a nice coupling convention for a war
mongering, capitalist, conspicuous consumer society.
No wonder these conventions are so frequently a part of
media dramas.
We
live in a country with a pervasive conquest and possession mindset.
If
you thought that our culture had grown beyond that, well, maybe you should
think again.
What
a way to ‘rear’ a country!
Mull it over for a
few years. Make others aware of it. Ed